Empower your Day in Just Seconds
Grantley Morris
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The only person we have rightful power to change is ourselves. To keep blaming the other person for all our difficulties is to take upon ourselves the victim mentality, with the result that we will have little opportunity to benefit from the situation, such as learning how to react differently. We all like to think we are pretty close to perfection and that it is the other person who most needs to lift his/her game. This attitude inevitably produces a stalemate that at best leads to a stale marriage and at worst . . . well, you dont even want to think about that. The instant you change, however, the stalemate is broken. By changing yourself, you change the entire dynamics of your relationship, which, incidentally, will change your partner as well. Taken from Resolving Marital Conflict Love others! May be freely copied. Just include this notice: © Grantley Morris, www.net-burst.com
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