Empower your Day in Just Seconds
Grantley Morris
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The battle can be fierce and drag on and on but I do not think we have to struggle endlessly through life over-burdened with demanding, out-of-control sexual urges. As impossible as it seems, we can actually put our libidos to sleep. The bad news is that the reason it seems impossible is that it takes enormous effort and self-denial to put our demanding desires to sleep. Like naughty children, our sex drives do not want to settle down. The only way to get your hyperactive sex drive to sleep is the same way to get a hyperactive child to sleep keep denying it things that will keep it excited. You have to keep telling it things like: No, you cant watch five minutes more television. It will give you bad dreams and disturb your sleep. No, you cant play your computer game. Youll want to do it over and over rather than sleep. No, you cant play with your friend. Youll get too excited and never settle down. No, you cant have a drink. To the child that you are trying to settle, life seems filled with frustrating nos. But Tommys allowed to do it! Its not fair! Just one more time. This little thing wont hurt. On and on the excuses and fights go. The child simply cannot believe that if denied these things now, he will feel better later and he will actually enjoy these activities more than ever after a refreshing sleep. Its far from easy, but if we are strict with this demanding child and keep saying no and consistently enforce it, eventually, to our great relief, he will settle. Taken from Handling The Pressures of Being Single Touch hearts! May be freely copied. Just include this notice: © Grantley Morris, www.net-burst.com
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