Empower your Day in Just Seconds
Grantley Morris
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Like a drowning man too scared to let go of a twig to grab his rescuers hand, we can fear anger so much that we cannot release the tight grip on our emotions long enough to get a decent grip on reality. Despite our best intentions to forgive, the mistaken fear that anger is unchristian can cause us to back off so far, so quickly after first sensing the slightest anger bubbling within us that we deny ourselves the opportunity to truly acknowledge the extent of the injury we have suffered. Sadly, this highly commendable desire to do the right thing could end up causing us to unknowingly short-circuit the entire forgiving process. You cannot forgive someone for stealing a million dollars when you believe he has only stolen five dollars. Forgiveness necessitates fully acknowledging the extent of the offence. We can think we have forgiven because we do not let ourselves feel anger, when deep within so deep that most of the time we presume it isnt there unresolved pain and anger torment us year after year after year. Taken from Why to Truly Forgive Hinges on Getting in Touch with Your Anger Share this! May be freely copied. Just include this notice: © Grantley Morris, www.net-burst.com
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