I’m embarrassed to admit that for years I was mystified as to what spiritual abuse actually means and I never bothered to find out. My only excuse is that spiritual abuse is not a biblical term. The offense is so serious, however, that the concept is frequently mentioned in Scripture. Biblical knowledge had therefore familiarized me – and probably you – with the concept, even if modern terminology had left me scratching my head.

So what is spiritual abuse? There might be different definitions but here’s mine: spiritual abuse is wrongly giving the impression that God approves, while doing something that ends up harming the victim physically, emotionally or spiritually. Sadly, it is rampant everywhere and is often not deliberate. What makes spiritual abuse particularly despicable is that it is claiming, or implying, divine approval for acting in a way that grieves God. The result not only blackens God’s name but hurts people who are dear to him – and everyone is dear to the God who is love.

In How to Recover from Spiritual Abuse, Lost Confidence & Self-Hate, I explain why it is psychologically so hard to recognize spiritual abuse, especially if it had its beginning early in one’s spiritual life. It also explains that among the many causes of confusion is that abusers typically surround themselves with people who think they are wonderful. This inevitably shakes victims’ confidence; making them ask themselves, “Who am I to think that not only this person but all his admirers are wrong?” Moreover, abusers always slip their poison into genuine spiritual truth. There is so much indisputable biblical truth in what they say that we swallow not just the bait but the barb; not just genuine spiritual food but the hook that keeps us from fleeing.

You are likely to benefit from reading the page just mentioned. For further help in understanding the nature of spiritual abuse, see Spiritual Abuse: Its Cause & Cure

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