Becoming orgasmic. Orgasmic enhancers? Beyond multiple orgasms?
Inadequate partner? Crave lasting satisfaction?
By G. D. Morris
Author of The Sex Lovers Bible
© 1998, 2005 All rights reserved
Warning: This is a radically different approach
to the quest for the ultimate fulfillment.
You must be willing to think outside the square
Or I cant help you.
    People with vastly different needs will visit this page, and each need concerns me. My goal is to direct visitors to help by means of links. So when you find a link that interests you, dare to follow it and be taken wherever you find yourself going, even if it might not initially seem connected to your need for orgasm. The aim is to go beyond superficialities to understanding and fulfilling your deepest yearnings.
    There are those who simply long to become orgasmic and there are those whose frustration is equally intense even though they enjoy multiple orgasms after multiple orgasms. The latter have the misfortune of being addicted to sex. Many who think they are desperate for sex are actually aching for genuine love.
    Just as anyone can become addicted to chemical highs, so we can become addicted to sexual highs. Every addiction starts off as a delightful friend and ever so slowly transmutes into a monster. This is true of our sexuality, which as a friend is exquisitely beautiful but as a tyrant it turns ugly.
    If you wonder if you could be heading for an addiction to sex, please see Understanding Sex Addiction
    If you suspect you might need a better partner, go straight to Finding the Perfect Partner
    Dont sell yourself short. Is your deepest need really for a super orgasmic enhancer mere animal pleasure? Do you really need yet another page on techniques? Dont you deserve something more profound? Will orgasm after orgasm after orgasm after orgasm really satisfy your deepest cravings? What if your quest for the Big O eventually leaves you feeling empty? Theres an exciting alternative that empowers you to soar beyond mere bodily functions.
    See What Your Fantasies Reveal
    I Want Scientific Proof
    You are a beautifully complex person, not a machine. Anyone supposing orgasm is simply a bodily reaction to physical stimulation is displaying gross ignorance for the wondrous complexity of orgasm. Like it or not, love and security are key factors influencing the likelihood of orgasm.
    Years ago, experts confidently stated that security is the single most important factor determining whether a woman will have an orgasm. My brain splutters into action. The height of security is to feel valued, fully accepted, and in a relationship that will last forever. Insecurity, on the other hand, is characterized by embarrassment, wondering if you are being exploited or in danger of being discarded like a used tissue. Put another way: security comes from feeling the object not of self-centered lust, but of true love that will never end.
    But coming, as I do, from a background of scientific research in psychology, I crave scientific proof of such claims. Recently, scientists obtained startlingly objective confirmation from a surprising source: brain scans.
    Neuro-scientists from a Netherlands University ran PET scans on women as they were experiencing the big O. They discovered that when women genuinely achieved orgasm, areas of the brain involved in fear and emotion were deactivated. This did not happen when resting or faking orgasm. During orgasm, there was strong, enormous deactivation in the brain, said one of the researchers, Gert Holstege. During fake orgasm, there was no deactivation of the brain at all. None. Addressing a fertility conference, he said, The deactivation of these very important parts of the brain might be the most important thing necessary to have an orgasm. He added, It means that if you are fearful or at a very high level of anxiety, then it is very difficult to have sex because you really have to let yourself go.
A Holistic Approach
You crave fulfillment.
You are made for it.
Yet
still it eludes you.
    This webpage approaches your need from a refreshingly different angle. The focus is not bigger, brighter, better orgasms, but filling the emptiness that could be hounding you to chase orgasm, or feel unfulfilled despite multiple orgasms after multiple orgasms.
    If you want nothing more in life than orgasms, skip this page and continue with a shallow life. If, however, you want something thrillingly deeper and more meaningful, click here for what could be the greatest discovery of your life.
    Orgasm for Everyone?
    Research involving twins is highly prized by geneticists because identical twins have identical genes, whereas non-identical twins are an invaluable comparison because although not genetically identical, they grew up in environments as similar to each other as identical twins. Research published in the journal Biology Letters, June 2005, involving over four thousand twins, about half of whom were identical twins, found that up to 45% of the variation of these womens ability to achieve orgasm is due not to technique or circumstances but genetics.
    Be that as it may, in our potential to find lasting fulfillment in the things that really matter, everyone is created equal. Whether we achieve that potential is dependent upon factors explained in Deep Within . . .
    The heart of the Sex Lovers Bible is not sexual orgasm. Its about the fulfillment many of us hope being super-orgasmic will bring. To understand more, Click here